When you look back over your life from where you’re standing right now – are you able to say – with conviction in your heart – that you feel really fulfilled & satisfied with the life you’ve lived thus far?
Or are you like most of us – who as we meet our 50s – & beyond – are not only feeling confronted by the limited time we have left here – but also feel some regret for neglecting or missing out on things that deep down really matter to us?…
Things that – had they been in the picture – would have made that picture so much more satisfying – so much more complete – things that have left your soul – the deeper aspect of you – hungry & unfulfilled?
e.g. – Have you spent your precious time busy pleasing others instead of yourself – maybe living out your parents or spouses dreams for you – & maybe you feel that to have lived out your own heart & soul’s dream would have left you feeling so much more fulfilled?
Or maybe your energy was spent worrying about lack of finances or lack of love or lack of physical health & had there been abundance – it would have meant peace & joy as your experience?
Perhaps have you been caught up in self sabotage & behaviours of addiction that have hampered your health & relationships?
Have you been stuck in a shell of shyness & discomfort in your own skin that’s prevented you from connecting with others or experiencing fun times?
Did you take up a career that was directed from your head – instead of your heart?
Have you spent so much time caring for others leaving precious little time for yourself?
Has your focus been on the ‘glass half empty’ looking for all sorts of reasons to grumble when you could have been smelling the roses?
Did you close your heart down in hurt – & cut off from connection with others?
Have you been afraid & stressed about what other’s think of you – unable to enjoy who you are – or your life & health?
If only there’d been the time, the love, the money, the confidence, the health, the … you fill in the blank – then you could have had a different story to tell!!
Only you can know what those things are that would have told a more fulfilling story for you
We are the creators of our reality – but bringing all this up to your attention is not at all about shaming you – there is no judgement here!
Your whole experience & where you’ve ended up – is a result of whatever the dominant thinking & vibration was – prior to this.
That dominant thinking & vibration that led to those results – was most likely all you knew to do at that time. And that’s OK!!
You are where you are now & that’s OK too!
It’s all just experience that –
- proves that you are already fabulous at manifesting!
- provides you with rich information from which you can develop the kind of experience you would like to have from here on.
And that is the reason I’ve brought this reality check to your attention
So – what is that experience you would like to have from here on?
Time is precious & being in the 2nd half of life makes it even more so!!
Here are 3 questions for you to reflect on & journal about this week:
- What is it that would need to have happened – for you to – at the end of your time here – look back over your life – & be able to say – with conviction in your heart – that you feel really ‘complete’?
- What will being able to do that – have that kind of peace & completeness – be worth to you?
- How can you intentionally live towards this now?
I hope that these questions are of value to you!
I’ll be talking about this more over the next couple of weeks – I know this subject can be confronting – but please trust me – it is heading in a really positive direction!!
I hope you’ll join me with this!
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